Tom wrote:
>On Wed, 18 Sep 2002, R. A. Hettinga wrote:
>--]I know it's not the popular choice for a lot of people, but I'd
>--]suggest, um, church. :-). Like Woody Allen said, 90% of life is
>--]showing up, right?
>--]
>
>I think another venue for finding people is the workplace. As a contractor
>I have had the opertunity to meet lots of eligables over the course of my
>wandering workhistory.
>
>My wife was my Task Order Manager years ago, thats  how we met. Her joke
>is that she is still my Task Order Manager but now I dont get paid:)-
>
>
Sure if you're willing to risk firing, lawsuits, etc. The last full time
job I had the sexual harassement seminar
was pretty clear - yes you can have relationships at the office, but its
extremely difficult, and the pitfalls are
horrendous.
Owen

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This sort of thing is, in my (limited?) experience, increasingly a thing
of the past. Not one person I know has found it worth the risk to pursue
a relationship with someone in the workplace. It's terrible to think we
could litigate our way into extinction...!
Elias
Owen Byrne wrote:
> ... The last full time job I had the sexual harassement seminar
> was pretty clear - yes you can have relationships at the office, but
> its extremely difficult, and the pitfalls are horrendous.

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